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My friend comes up to me and he's all like: "Look at this photograph, every time I see it makes me laugh. My eyes get so red and what the hell (Chen) is on your head?"
(Yes I just quoted nickelback .3.)
Anyway my friend was showing me some old photos and then we started talking about the old days and I recalled a party where I met someone who could only be described as a catastrophe.
She bought the most fashionable clothes, great make up, good style, but holy tamoli - she - she was - actually I don't think there is a polite way to describe it in the English language.
In any case, I knew this girl basically did nothing for herself. She was the type to just stuff herself and would only sleep and chat on Facebook during her free time (maybe some farmville, whatever was popular back then).
Anyhow, she was basically the token plus girl in the 'cool girls/mean girls' group and that meant her personality was basically as terrible as the rest of her.
Now when I was at this party, I was just looking for my pals who had invited me and then I spotted her standing with her group. I made sure not to make eye contract unlike a few unlucky individuals, because no matter how good the rest of the group is, that one was a landmine.
Trust me, you say anything other than 'oh my god, you look so great' and you will just get destroyed socially because the rest of the pack is going to set on you like a bunch of blood-thirsty hyenas and the rumours about you being anti-women and all that will spread to the four corners of the globe faster than any zombie apocalypse. Yes it was that bad!
So I literally spent the whole night evading any sort of conversation with said individuals and at one point they were looking for me. (Why? Friend of friend says, guess what he's a writer and they suddenly think that makes me cool instead of shit poor and homeless if not for my parents).
Anyway, point of this little story is this: I don't mind boosting someone's morale, I love doing it and I love making a person feel great about themselves, but if you're that token girl that is somehow being idolised because you're in the cool kids group and you expect me to do the same thing and lie to you. I am not going to do that. I will make polite conversation sure, but expecting praise and adoration; not going to happen.
Instead, I like people who are actually trying their best, those I will gladly talk to and boost their morale. If I know that person and they're shy at a party (hell I'm a shut-in myself anyway) I'll probably be the first one to talk to them.
TL;DR > If you are a perfectly able bodied individual who chooses to let themselves go to the dogs, don't expect to be addressed as anything other than that.
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